The nephew of one of our faculty just came in to pick up some materials for his aunt, who is a seminary/institute teacher. She couldn't make it down to get them, so she enlisted his help, since he lives in this very happy valley. From the approximately seven minutes I spent with him, he seemed nice enough and even nice-looking. But - uh - I was working (just to clarify) and was only trying to help him get all the materials she might need and load them into his truck. As is one of my many assignments. Go ahead: tell me what a dedicated employee I am. * listening *
However, I would like to say this certain gentleman went above and beyond on the receiving end. He was making nice enough conversation as I showed him the materials, and then I told him where he could bring his car around and I told him I would meet him at the back door with his materials.
He dutifully went to move his car while I enlisted two co-workers in helping me with a very uncooperative, WD-40 covered dolly so I could load the materials into his truck. Whatever. Anyway, I went and met him around back and started loading the boxes into his truck (still with WD-40 all over my hands, and in my nice work clothes, mind you...) when he starts with the awkward/funny.

"You smell nice."
"What's your perfume?"
(I didn't want to disappoint him by telling him he was just smelling a mixture of possibly my shampoo and most definitely the WD-40 all over my hands...)
"How long have you worked here?" & "When did you graduate?"
(aka - "How old are you?" - stealthy, secret code. Oh, I've got the translation. That's right.)
By then, I had finished loading the boxes into his truck (don't worry...he was helping in the meantime, not just standing there watching me slave away and talking about my personal hygiene and life/career path.)
I smiled, shook his hand (by this time, the WD-40 was gone, at least in substance...smell still lurking...but clearly this has a good effect...) and told him it was nice to meet him, tell his aunt hello, I think she's great, yada yada yada.
I tried to pull my hand away as he still held ON to my hand and while looking straight into my eyes, says,
"I'll tell her that."
...still holding my hand.....
Okaaaaay, thank you. Very much.
WD-40, ladies. Works every time. HAHAHAHHAHA. * wink *

















HOWEVER. Even knowing how I felt about the issue, and what I would vote...I felt a lot of sadness and just a little bit of fear start to stir inside me. Not fear of what I felt like I needed to do, but fear of what would happen to those I love, no matter which direction the issue happens to go. I believe marriage is between a man and a woman. I believe it is ordained of God, that it is a sacred relationship, and should be guarded and cared for with all our energy. I know families are essential to the reasons we are even here on earth in the first place. We are supposed to help each other and do all we can to support each other. But I also know there are forces on this earth whose sole purpose is to destroy these principles that are so central to what I believe and personally know to be true.
