So...remember how everyone in the world is on facebook? And remember how...well...everyone can see this blog? Ugh. Well, someone did see it. And I feel like a jerk. I didn't necessarily want to put this on my blog, but - I clearly was - wrong? Hmm. This is what he sent me in response to seeing my frightening assessment of his behavior. Despite my pride being slightly wounded, it's more important, I suppose, not to falsely portray someone...no matter what. (Though I still stand by my irritation in general. It just doesn't have a face anymore.) Here it is:
Hey DeeAura, I just really wanted to apologize. I didn't mean to offend you, though that is exactly what i did. I really do apologize if it seemed like i had a really big ego, among many other things, when talking with you, i was actually just nervous and didn't know what to say. I know that what little opinion you had of me probably went down even more, but i truly am sorry. You can put my apology in your blog if that would make you feel better, but the honest truth is that i just wanted to have fun with somebody that i thought was a friend.
*HEAVY SIGH* Sorry to this boy. I didn't mention his name before, so I won't now. This, I suppose, is one of the downfalls of "virtual communication." On both ends. Don't text message a girl for a date, and I won't misconstrue your intentions and therefore vent about it on my blog.
6 comments:
Everyone says stuff they shouldn't... I do it ALL THE TIME... I still love you!!! :)
Wow. I didn't see this one coming. *sigh* Don't you hate when stuff like that happens? (I'm talking about having a crap situation thrown upon you, trying to cope among the stress, and then being somewhat wrong about it? -I'm not saying that your feelings weren't valid! I would've been ranting about it right along side you! -You remember how passionate I can be...) Anyway...maybe this fella can learn a lesson as well? Like...don't text a gal to tell her "I'm taking you out." Even if you don't love talking on the phone, that's the way it's done. And don't TELL, but rather ASK.
I still think you have every right to be frustrated.
Oh, and it looks like your last post got lots of comments! :)
Love ya, girl! I still think you're top notch!
I had a feeling that was going to happen. These dang things... It might be SLIGHTLY awkward when you see him EVERY sunday for the next who knows how long, but I think time will heal. :) LOVE YOU though.. You really are the best.
Ohhhhh! DEE! I am so sorry!! I kind of know the feeling ... I have a poll question on my blog always. My last poll question was something like, "99.9% of men Mindy has met with this name are psycho. What is the name?" ... Then I listed four names. Anywhoot: this guy also has access to my blog through Facebook ... But in my defense, he's married! Why would he be reading the blog of a gal that he went out with who rejected him after he's married? Anyway, his status shortly read, " So & So is 99.9% psycho." OOPS!
i. hate. this. kind. of. crap. but i love you. we've all done it at one time or another. go eat a fruit roll up, you'll feel better.
So I started doing the skimming thing, and have realized that you and I, my friend, are pretty dang similar.
This little scenario makes me smile and cringe simultaneously because I had an EXTREMELY similar situation happen on my blog. There was a guy who was chasing me who I was NOT interested in and thought was ridiculous. Then I ended up really getting to know him, and started dating him. And am still dating him. My blog was private at the time so I thought I could get away with talking smack (I know I'm naughty), but I could only make up so many excuses as to why I wouldn't let my boyfriend read my blog. I finally fessed up and hurt his feelings. Big time. It sucked, but I learned a lot about giving people the benefit of the doubt.
Unfortunately this little lesson cut way back on my funny stories (and exaggerations for comedic effect). Phooey. Blah, blah, being a better person is great.
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